The Saga continues.....

HAHAHAHA (can you hear the insanity?)

Well, I have just looked to remind myself what I had blogged last.....No Divorce. How time can changed in 2 weeks.....

Week 1

Phone call, 'going home' - ok - 20 mins later phone rings again....tears 'not going now' .....ok..... 'Getting a divorce'....My response...'YAY! sorry but you know how I feel. What has he done?' to which I got 'I don't want to get you involved, but I have grounds...' HURRARH!
Appointment made, ironically 32 years to the day after I was born she is seeing the solicitor to get a divorce.... all done, paperwork being sent....he is not going to contest, has sent a letter stating his infidelity, so he only has to sign the paperwork, it will go through whatever process, he has to sell flat, pay off debts (joint) and then split what is left..... Finally, we are getting there.

Week 2

Spoke, yet again, too soon.
I am sick with flu, haven't been out of bed for nearly 4 days when she comes round to help with the kids, as hubby is back to work....round at 4.30pm, sorts out kids tea, brings some beef she has cooked, asked if I wanted mine, and I wasn't really hungry. Then says 'I am getting a train at 6pm'......OH?! 'Where are you staying?'....asked tentatively while saying in my had 'not dad's not dads....' 'With Ann' ....... phew! Ok, so she is going, fare enough, she has missed her friends and my sisters and her grand kids up there....this is ok.....
Sister texts, she had dad round last night, telling her they are no longer getting a divorce, to keep her nose out and don't tell anyone! HE doesn't want to sell the flat. MONEY! It comes down to money, not love, feeling remorse, guilt...no, money!!!! He is picking mum up tonight and putting her up for the night.......
ARRRHHHGGGGGHHHHH! We have both had it now. She is going to have them round tomorrow and tell them a few home truths....
That didn't go too well, well, that is an understatement. He really is a piece of work. He called my sister Evil, said she had an evil streak and was an attention seeker and never did half the stuff she has done for attention (suicide attempts etc - for example, when she was 10 she took her 1st od, we ended up in family counselling, and he couldn't even remember it!!!) and that she wasn't part of his side of the family...that's my grandparents who died last year who were more like parents to us. Wouldn't say why he no longer wanted divorce, just said he loved mum....she said how can you call it love or a marriage, when you go out shagging around, and 3 weeks after she leaves you are in bed with another man?!! After much arguing, it seems she got no where. They are still together, as far as I know she is still staying at his, and she hasn't been in contact since my sister told her we all know they not getting divorce now and she is staying with him.....

Still feel crap, ache all over, get worn out doing tiny things, and hubby thinks I have just got a cold and to get on with it...'I went to work, did some labouring helping build an office....' MEN!
We also found out this week that he is going to be a Grandad!!! HAHAHA! Does that make me a step-grandma?! At 32 is that even possible? Yep, suppose it is! YIKES! His daughter is 3 months gone. He and her mum wanted her to get abortion...'she has limitations if she has it' Crap came out... I totally disagree with abortion. If, and she doesn't, she felt that way, I would have said, have it, and get it adopted, or I would take care of it, rather than abortion. So, my kids are going to be an auntie and uncle at the end of the year.....

Tell you, you couldn't make it up could you?