Friday 10 July 2009

This may take a while....

So, where do I begin?!

Flat was sold...stc, last week, hurrah! Then my dad was going on about getting a solicitor, as he didn't think he should be giving mum any from it as it was left to him in his dad's will.....Then he wanted to get back with her, though admitted he felt more for he/she (was a man, op, now woman) than he did for her.
After a rough week, and one where she has being saying it was the right thing to do, move here, settled, and getting on with life, the flat selling like it did when there are 5 other flats in the building that have been on the market far longer, she rang last night to say she was going up to see him....and probably will stay with him. The divorce is off again. The flat sale is on hold as the woman is ill. She still loves him....WHAT???!!!!???? I told her she is mad, she said everyone says she is but she still loves him, the man who has cheated countless times on her, who goes out and gets his kicks cottaging, who admitted he feels more for a he/she who has no sex drive, who only wants her for her benefit money! ARGHH!! It makes me sick and mad. I was so cross with her last night after she called.
I was supposed to take her to the station this morning, and was going early so I could talk to her, see what was going on in her head, but on the way home from taking my son to school the car broke down! So RAC came out, and it started straight away! TYPICAL! He did a check, and something was flashing as having an error, so he went to open bonnet and couldn't! So took it to our garage, he opened it straight away!! LOL! But they didn't work on what needed doing so recommended someone else, drove it there and then they couldn't get the bonnet open either! So it has been left to be seen to and fix the bonnet! More money going out! Called mum to let her know and she is getting a taxi, short brief conversation.
Hubby is away this weekend on his golf weekend with his mates, they play golf all day then go get drunk all night! So I have a weekend with just me and the kids...and I have to see my son's teacher tonight after school about what they are going to do next year for him, with his extra one to one tuition. I was hoping mum would have the kids so I could talk to her alone, but that won't be happening now! And I will be walking up to school too, so hope it stays sunny! They might even look into doing the dyslexia test next year when he will be 7....
I had my sister and her fiance down last weekend, was lovely to see them. I hope they work out, they are trying for a baby, have been for ages! She has loads against her, and if she loses 6kg in 3 months time they will let her go on fertility treatment for 6 months. I worry about her though. She went out for her birthday last month and ended up spending the night talking to an ex. Her fiance knows all about it and they still got engaged, so hopefully she has realised where she is better off!
And my other sister, well, she seems to be rebelling against everything! She bought a dress for going out in with the girls one night, and my sister told her if she went out in it not to bend down! And to be careful as it said she was only out for one thing! Yet her hubby said she could go out in it! I just don't get him?! Or maybe he has had enough fighting with her? Or wants her to go off with someone so he can divorce her and get the kids? Who knows?! Now my sister tells me she may be flirting with someone we once knew as kids! She needs a good slap I think!!
Well, think that is my essay over for this month! Will see what next month brings....divorce on? moving back? Wedding? Baby?!!! lol!
Oh, and I stopped atkins as it just didn't work for me!!! I have decided to eat sensible, smaller portions, and do some exercise....starting with walking to school! And I got a 12ft trampoline off ebay to jump up and down on! Only problem is my weak bladder....may have to get that seen too **blush**